Tuesday, May 31, 2005

Time for Self Reflection

I was reading through Alan's blog just now. He REALLY MAKES ME THINK THAT HE HAS NOT REALLY LEARN FROM THE INCIDENT THREE YEARS AGO that made so malu in front of my poly friends. To say that Kelvin nearly wanted to whack him after the incident is not a joke.

I am not saying that he is not a nice guy. He is a nice guy who cares about people, but when it comes to gals, he tends to be over friendly (makes you think if he is interested in the gal. We knew he was interested in that gal 3 years ago, & the gal was attached, the boyfriend was also there.)

Personally, I also experienced it, thanks to those guys at WLNY. I also learnt my lesson from there. Some people can tolerate your friendliness, but most youngsters, especially those born after 1980+ tend to think you try to be a buaya when you try to talk to them too much. The lesson I learnt is people come from various families, with different background & peer pressure can change you as a person. You must know the limits of the relationship before you start.


Monday, May 30, 2005

The Keys To your heart

The Keys to Your Heart

You are attracted to obedience and warmth.

In love, you feel the most alive when your partner is patient and never willing to give up on you.

You'd like to your lover to think you are loyal and faithful... that you'll never change.

Your ideal relationship is traditional. Without saying anything, both of you communicate with your hearts.

Your risk of cheating is zero. You care about society and morality. You would never break a commitment.

You think of marriage as something precious. You'll treasure marriage and treat it as sacred.

In this moment, you think of love as something you don't need. You just feel like flirting around and playing right now.

Found this on my friend's blog, very interesting. So maybe you can try this.

Some People Just Need To Wake Up

I am still suffering from slight pains from wisdom tooth operation. I managed to catch up with my revisions, these few days. Its a good sign, I hope. Just hope that I can do well.

Stella has managed to sign the appointment letter for her new job. I feel happy for her. :) She says the boss wants her to take some tests, like "lie-detector test" before she starts her job. She needs to pass, otherwise she cannot have the job. Anyway, I have told her that I would give her a treat in celebration of her new job after my papers. :) She has agreed.

The same cannot be said about one of my old NS mates, whom I regained contact with recently. He is about the same age as me. He had just completed his mass communications diploma, but I guess he is not suited for the course in the 1st place. He is a hearing-impaired person, therefore he would need hearing aid to assist in his hearing. Judging from my recent meeting with him, he still has problems with his hearing. I had to say what I want to say to him quite loudly, even though I am 10 metres away from him !!!!

You guys will be surprised with his answer, when I asked him what job he wants. He said " A news producer of CNA." I feel that sometimes when your body has certain limitations that hinder the work that you wish to do, you should consider altering your goals just to suit your limitations. I feel sad for his parents, especially his dad, who is a sole breadwinner of the family.
His dad is a taxi driver. To feed a family of 4, based on an unstable income is not easy.

I just hope that he comes to his senses and get an admin job with a stable pay, so that his parents do not need to worry so much about him. :) Please wake up from your dream, Alan.
I know everybody has dreams & hopes, but sometimes we have to be realistic. The world of journalism & entertainment is not for you. It is a too nasty world for you !!!.

I hope someone comments on this. :)

Thursday, May 26, 2005

Wisdom Tooth Operation

I just had my wisdom tooth operation today. You guys must be surprised why I brought forward the operation. The pain was starting to be unbearable, so I had no choice but to bring forward the operation.

The funny part was that the dentist actually said that I had 2 decayed wisdom teeth that needed to be removed. I guessed I had little choice but to oblige accordingly. The left side, which was the side giving me the problem, went well. It was the one on the right that was giving me the pain somehow during the operation. Hmmm, wonder if this was the way dentist earns money.

Anyway the good side of this whole operation was the 1 week MC that I was going to have. I have the chance to do my revision for ACCA, as the exams are around the corner.

Wednesday, May 25, 2005

Wisdom Tooth Operation

I was expriencing some pain in my tooth for the past few days & I decided to pay a visit to the dentist.

Just as what I predicted, my wisdom tooth was giving me a hell of a problem, & the problem was quite serious. The wisdom tooth has rotted. The dentist recommended me to do an operation. BUT I GUESSED I WOULD NOT LET THIS DENTIST Q & M CLINIC AT SERANGOON CENTRAL DO IT. She was so rough in putting the X-ray flim to check the rotting part. In the end, she gave up after a few tries and recommended me to do an OPG.

After discussing with my mum, I decided to do my operation at NTUC Denticare, which is cheaper but about $100. $100 can do a lot of things & NTUC Club members have discount, so I guess I made the right choice.

Wish me well for 1 June then!!!

Saturday, May 14, 2005

Snow Wolf Lake is Coming

Just got a message from my good friend today that the Chinese version of Snow Wolf Lake is coming. I will defintely be going. I have sms-ed Stella to see if she wants to go.

Let's hope she can make it :)

Monday, May 09, 2005

Consuellor Paul

I wonder why people always look for me when they have problems. I guess it could be my postive attitude that makes people want to come to me for advice.

One such thing to happen is my cousin. Her boyfriend had proposed that they should get a house. I told her that I felt that the relationship is still in the infancy stage( abt 1 year). I said that relationship problems may surface due to short courtships. This is especially true as people do change.

I told her that this was between her and her boyfriend, so I can only give her advice as I do not how she feel about him.

Later in the week, she told me that she had applied for a new flat in Jurong but her parents wanted her to stay around them in Eunos. The difference in price is about $300K. I told her you should never pay for your flat till you are in your 50s. So she took the Jurong flat.

I just hope that the relationship can work out for them. Hope it does not end up like my NS buddies, fighting over the flat in a bitter divorce.

A New HP

Some of you may know that I have changed my handphone again. :) Well, I just changed to a Nokia 6020. Thanks to that shopkeeper, he has super good sales pitch. I wanted to take the Samsung E810C, he said that this batch got a lot of problem. like screen hang & phone sliding problem.

Then I wanted to get the Nokia 7270, the guy say the hp got manufacturer's defect, so he recommended this hp to me. Its actually not a bad hp, just that the graphics & resolutions are not as good as Samsung.

Jason was telling me yesterday that I should go with what my heart says & get the Samsung E810C. Sometimes it is not good to trust these shopkeepers.

Well I am planning to switch to Singtel soon. My M1 bill is getting more & more expensive. I think it will only stop if I start the complaining again.


It has been a while since I last blogged. My mood have been affected by my work recently. The fortunate thing was that there was singing, JJ...