What Is Friendship?
I received news today that one of my colleagues, who is also one of my lunch partners lost her father-in law to a sudden fall.
I contributed a token sum as 白金. But I was quite stunned by one of my colleagues, Q about what she said. Q had known this colleague of mine, K, from their previous company. This means that they have known each other for a long time. Q said, " the person who passed away is K's father in law, & not her immediate family member. My group of colleagues, including myself were stunned.
Flashback to two incidents, where I felt that K really went through great lengths to help Q during Q's brother sudden death due to cancer & the time when Q had a bad fall that caused her to be on crutches for about 3 months.
K actually comforted Q during the breavement period & helped her buy food, boil water & sometimes hail a cab for her.
Now, K needs Q's support, Q just cast aside K by saying "the person who passed away is K's father in law, & not her immediate family member & I am very busy, need to teach lesson & take care of my daughter." What kind of friend are you, I asked her, don't you appreciate your friend or should I say treasure what your friend has done for you?"
Q, I know why your friends are deserting you. It is because of your this attitude to your friends. You will lose more friends if you continue like that.
If I were K, I would really walk out on Q, ke what I did to a certain person,I did blogged before here because the person is not appreciative to what I did for him & put me to embrarassment.
K, hope everything is fine. The dead can't be brought back to life.
I contributed a token sum as 白金. But I was quite stunned by one of my colleagues, Q about what she said. Q had known this colleague of mine, K, from their previous company. This means that they have known each other for a long time. Q said, " the person who passed away is K's father in law, & not her immediate family member. My group of colleagues, including myself were stunned.
Flashback to two incidents, where I felt that K really went through great lengths to help Q during Q's brother sudden death due to cancer & the time when Q had a bad fall that caused her to be on crutches for about 3 months.
K actually comforted Q during the breavement period & helped her buy food, boil water & sometimes hail a cab for her.
Now, K needs Q's support, Q just cast aside K by saying "the person who passed away is K's father in law, & not her immediate family member & I am very busy, need to teach lesson & take care of my daughter." What kind of friend are you, I asked her, don't you appreciate your friend or should I say treasure what your friend has done for you?"
Q, I know why your friends are deserting you. It is because of your this attitude to your friends. You will lose more friends if you continue like that.
If I were K, I would really walk out on Q, ke what I did to a certain person,I did blogged before here because the person is not appreciative to what I did for him & put me to embrarassment.
K, hope everything is fine. The dead can't be brought back to life.
Comments
K hope she is fine....
agree with DJ, shame on Q....
K said that Q called her & told her that she can't go to the wake. K seemed ok with Q 's non-attendance.
I am surprised!!!
Take care, and hope this is the last time you meet indifferent people.
when the worst situation u know who are your frds!
i been through that during college days