Busy Day & Pissed Off

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It was a busy day for me at work today. I worked till about 7.15pm before I left the office. I was the last person to leave the office, so you can imagine how much work I have cleared, but is still not finished. I still have a fair bit to clear.

I feel sad for DJ as her plans for a surprise for a person close to her heart was not appreciated. This is my message for her.

In a relationship, both parties should feel happy & comfortable together every time they meet.
If either one of them is feeling pressured in a relationship
Both parties should take a step back
Think about what they hope to achieve in the relationship
Sometimes giving away something to someone you love can make your day.
Understanding each other & communication will definitely make the relationship better.

Comments

Richie said…
Paul, why u never tell me this before? Maybe it can helped me? Never mind, its over. Haha.
Wednesday, December 28, 2005 12:26:00 am
DARLing said…
richi is jealous liao... dont dont dont ok ..
now since paul tell me I pass it on to me

paul thanks .. for that ..
Wednesday, December 28, 2005 1:09:00 am
Kazzzzzzz said…
well, BR, at least it gives you food for thought in case the 2nd one comes along... (^_^)

but seriously, some things are easier said than done.... what has been said, I've tried... difficult to do.. sigh..
Wednesday, December 28, 2005 4:33:00 pm
Paul said…
Hmmm although I am not in a relationship at the moment, or for that matter, none before, through friends' sharing of their relationship, I have picked up the pointers here & there to tell myself these are the things needed for a relationship to succeed.
Wednesday, December 28, 2005 11:06:00 pm
Richie said…
Paul, it takes more than theories to make things work. I knew it once and dun even hav the confidence to face another.
Wednesday, December 28, 2005 11:38:00 pm
Paul said…
Haha, I will cross e bridge when I come to that. U dun suan me ok.
Thursday, December 29, 2005 10:39:00 pm
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